"Get there slower and enjoy the ride. I like how it is portrayed in this video:
Deferring your happiness to the future is a terrible idea.
Too many people presume that when they have that one thing they can work towards for years then “everything will be alright”.
This is delusional.
When you get it, there’ll be something else missing in your life. I fundamentally believe that long-term pure happiness from one particular situation or achievement is a pipe-dream, but we can learn to be content with what we have, live in the now, all while enjoying the progress and changes we are making.
If your whole life is working up towards one really big major goal that you hold on to for years, then you will have a major anticlimax after the dust settles. Work towards it, but stop deferring your happiness."